Truth can be so annoying. If annoying truth was a Jeopardy category it might look like this…
“I’ll take Annoying Truths for $100, Alex.”
This famous preacher said, “Give me five minutes with a person’s checkbook, and I will tell you where their heart is.”
“Who is Billy Graham? I’ll take Annoying Truths for $200, Alex.”
This missionary to India said, “You can give without loving. But you cannot love without giving.”
“Who was Amy Carmichael, Alex. I am getting very uncomfortable with this topic so let’s take “Sins that make you worse than me for $100.”
Money is an uncomfortable topic for followers of Jesus. One anonymous writer noted that a lot of people are willing to give God the credit, but not too many are willing to give Him the cash.
Twenty-six years ago a man in Kansas City made a choice to give away the cash. It was a choice that changed his life and the lives of thousands more. The Associated Press reported that for the next 26 years, a man known only as Secret Santa roamed the streets every December quietly giving people money. He started with $5 and $10 bills. As his fortune grew, so did the gifts. In recent years, Secret Santa has been handing out $100 bills, sometimes two or three at a time, to people in thrift stores, diners and parking lots. So far, he’s anonymously given out about $1.3 million. It’s been a long-held holiday mystery: Who is Secret Santa? But now, weak from chemotherapy and armed with a desire to pass on his belief in random kindness, Secret Santa has decided it’s time to reveal his identity.
He is Larry Stewart, a 58-year-old businessman from the Kansas City suburb of Lee’s Summit, Mo., who made his millions in cable television and long-distance telephone service. While Stewart has also given money to other community causes in Kansas City and his hometown of Bruce, Miss., he offers the simple gifts of cash because it’s something people don’t have to “beg for, get in line for, or apply for.”
His epiphany happened just before Christmas in 1979. His circumstances were dire. For the second year in a row he had been fired just days before Christmas. He admits that he was wallowing in self-pity when he learned that giving returned an inexplicable joy. That simple discovery changed him, the entire city of Kansas City, and beyond. Let’s pick up the story as Stewart was nursing his wounds at a drive-in restaurant after getting fired once again. He describes that December day in his own words.
“It was cold and this car hop didn’t have on a very big jacket, and I thought to myself, `I think I got it bad. She’s out there in this cold making nickels and dimes,”‘ he said. He gave her $20 and told her to keep the change. “And suddenly I saw her lips begin to tremble and tears begin to flow down her cheeks. She said, `Sir, you have no idea what this means to me.”‘
Larry Stewart was deeply touched. He decided to go to the bank that day and took out $200, then drove around looking for people who could use a lift. That was his “Christmas present to himself.” He’s hit the streets each December since. Now, his mission is bigger than handing out $100 bills. Stewart wants to speak to community groups about his devotion to kindness and to inspire others to donate their time and money. “That’s what we’re here for,” Stewart says, “to help other people out.”
Larry Stewart has learned the reality of money and possessions that was eloquently expressed by author Thomas Fuller. “Riches enlarge rather than satisfy appetites.”
As a follower of Christ I think Stewart has it half right when he notes that we are here to help other people out. The religious scholars asked Jesus what a purpose driven life should look like.
“Teacher, which command in God’s Law is the most important?”
Jesus said, “‘Love the Lord your God with all your passion and prayer and intelligence.’ This is the most important, the first on any list. But there is a second to set alongside it: ‘Love others as well as you love yourself.’ These two commands are pegs; everything in God’s Law and the Prophets hangs from them.” Matthew 22 The Message
During this Christmas season I am challenging you to join me in trying Larry Stewart’s experiment. Go buy yourself a gadget or outfit or bauble. Note the reading on the joy meter. Then go give money to a desperate Mom trying to make ends meet. Or give some cash to an elderly couple who can’t pay the heating bill. Deliver a Christmas gift to children who would not receive gifts any other way. Then see which action has given you real joy. Was it acquiring more stuff or meeting real needs in the lives of others? Larry Stewart has learned that lesson. And the world is a better place because of the revelation he experienced on a cold December day twenty-six years ago.
Pray about what you can give this Christmas. Remember that Larry Stewart started small. I pray that you will receive the kind of joy that has driven the Kansas City “Secret Santa” for twenty-six years. The chance to witness the surprised joy of a person receiving an unexpected and much needed gift. Kind of like salvation, isn’t it? That is the gift that Jesus brought to Bethlehem two millenia ago. And that is another gift we should be eager to share this season.
jamie osario
we have had a very bad decade,we went through a very rough time,about 8 years ago,we went through the story on the news where,the cemetery misplaced my sons body,and 2 years ago we were hit by a drunk driver head on,my husband and i were very badly injure,i wasnt able to work for a very long time,now that i am able i cant seem to find a job nowhere,its horrible,so all together we havent had a christmas in 3 years,my husband used to be the kind of person to help everyone out,now that we once again cant afford christmas it has broke his heart,his eyes and face use to light up every year as christmas approached,but now he claims he doesnt even want too think about it,we dont even put up christmas decorations,you see we got a 3 day eviction notice,our cable is cut off,our electric bill is way past due,and we only get through week by week on one paycheck,which isnt enough no matter how hard we try,yet he never complains,or blames me because i am not working,and he raised my children since they were babies,and would never let me file for child support,he said he was now their father,and never complained,hes an awesome person would do anything to help someone else,but now he cant help hisself,and my son and wife are going to college and have a baby,and are struggling just the same it terrible,so if anyone could possibly help,i would be so incredibly grateful and when we get back on our feet we can pay it forward,i start school in january,and cant wait.so if anyones finds this story,please take the time to read it,im not the best at telling my story but i hope i did ok,my email is hottytotty8594@live.com and my phone number is 386-589-1431 thank you so much for your time and i would be eternally grateful,so please please please help,i am not worried about me getting anything just my husband ,son,daughter-in-law,and granddaughter.thank you so very much.signed eternally grateful,i know this is last minute,so i understand if no one can help,but i have been trying for a week.thank you jamie
Donna
Guess the key to Christmas is TO BE HERE .. I have enough that I can give to my small family and others. I can do community service like helping with Coats for Kids Etc. I can have the day off from job # 2 as only seniority gets the holiday pay. I can have the day off from job # 1 as the customers go to their families homes. I can see woodland critterrs on our lawn and watch the antics as they get into whatever we have put out for them and I can have time for a good movie or book for myself… and here in Vt we do have White Christmases .
JUDY FRANCIS
CAN YOU TEL ME HOW TO CONTACT A NEEDY FAMILY…WE WOULD LIKE TO FOREGO OUR XMAS AND GIVE OURS TO ANOTHER FAMILY IN NEED….THANKS JUDY FAMILY OF 8
Katie
Thanks for this article. This year as a parent of 6, I am sickened of the "sickness" that has become Christmas. At age 39 (three more week and it’ll be 40), I absolutely balked at the idea of my husband and I buying one more "dirty santa" gift for another party this week. I challenged my husband that as we are at our party (we are youth leaders at our church) that we challenge everyone in our group to load up our cars with our dirty santa gifts and take them down to our city rescue mission and just hand them out. I wish for my kids to know more about the spirit of giving so that they do not go thru life with the emptiness of only wanting. We teach a youth small group in our home and are adopting a needy family – the kids are very excited about this project – they too I believe, are bored with their comfortable life and wish to embrace Jesus’ true message – compassion.