I love this story from the Gospel written by Mark.

“A man with leprosy came and knelt in front of Jesus, begging to be healed.”

The suffering man approached Jesus in such an honest way. He begged Him to be healed. I can relate to that. How many times have I begged God for something without trusting His sovereignty in the process? The answer is too many times. I should respond more like this man who understood Jesus was able to heal but He had to be willing. Here is that exchange.

“If you are willing, you can heal me and make me clean,” he said. Moved with compassion, Jesus reached out and touched him. “I am willing,” he said. “Be healed!” Instantly the leprosy disappeared, and the man was healed.” (Mark‬ ‭1‬:‭40‬-‭42‬ ‭NLT)‬‬

Jesus was moved by the sincere and trusting heart of the leper. Jesus responded with deep tenderness. The leper believed Jesus had the power to heal. But he also believed he himself did not have the power to demand that Jesus heal him. He showed faith, revealed his heart, and trusted the results to Jesus.

When our request is not answered does it mean Jesus isn’t willing? Part of understanding these moments is putting them in context with other Scripture. What is Jesus willing to do in other ways? A few examples…

• Jesus is always Willing to Forgive our sins
• Jesus is always Willing to Love us
• Jesus is always Willing to be our Advocate
• Jesus is always Willing to be present in us through the power of the Holy Spirit
• Jesus is always Willing to show us the way to grow in faithfulness and love

Perhaps the most incredible thing Jesus was willing to do was take our sin upon Himself to the Cross. He was willing to suffer and die for us. That gave us the resurrection and forgiveness of our sins. But Jesus had to make the biggest willingness decision ever.

“He went on a little farther and bowed with his face to the ground, praying, “My Father! If it is possible, let this cup of suffering be taken away from me. Yet I want your will to be done, not mine.”” (‭‭Matthew‬ ‭26‬:‭39‬ ‭NLT‬‬)

Jesus wished there were other options but He was willing to endure the pain of crucifixion for you and for me. His willingness to love us is undeniable. So I am learning to trust God when my prayers are not answered in the way I hoped for. Jesus loves us. God is sovereign. We won’t know why things happen until we are together with Jesus. I heard a preacher say this and I have not forgotten it.

”I believe I will spend the first 10,000 years in Heaven saying now I understand why that happened. Oh, I see why that occurred. That makes sense now.”

I have lost friends way too early in my opinion. But then I see the impact of how they were a light to those around them even in those dark valleys. Their example made an eternal difference as God used their testimony for His glory.

One of my great spiritual epiphanies came while ­listening to a Garth Brooks song. I know. Garth may not be a go-to theologian but his song called “Unanswered Prayers” resonated with my heart. He sings about things that he fervently begged for God to provide. Now, years later, he can see how much better things are because those prayers were unanswered. I have shared the same experience many times. I would suggest that unanswered is an answer, but I guess that would not make a catchy lyric.

I remember praying for a particular job that would give me prestige and allow me to climb the ladder in the broadcast world. It looked like the offer was about to come, and then it did not. I was disappointed. Confused. What happened?

In retrospect, I believe that God moved in that situation and firmly slammed the door shut. I can see now that it was not even close to being a good fit for me. It was a ­high- pressure position where performance was often more important than people. Instead, God put me in a place where my relational gifts could be used to not only direct good sports telecasts but also to invest in the lives of those I work with every day. Today I thank God that He said no to my prayer.

Jesus is willing. I trust that means things will be redeemed for eternity even when the short term results aren’t what we desire.