Your humble “Bad Christian” took a little summer hiatus from the daily ramblings last month. July featured a countdown of the top twenty most read articles in the two year life of this blog. The countdown finished with a piece written just a couple of days after hearing about my wife Joni’s diagnosis of breast cancer. That post was called “Sentences That Change Your Life”. Sixteen months later I can verify how much one sentence changed our lives. It was an odd coincidence that the story was delivered to many of your electronic mailboxes on the same day that ABC’s Robin Roberts announced her breast cancer diagnosis on ‘Good Morning America’.
I saw Robert’s brave optimism and strength. But I also saw the emotion and fear of the unknown battle that loomed in the days ahead. It is not an easy journey. But I am sure that Robin Roberts will be an inspiration to women across America. The message that Robin emphasized was the importance of early detection. With early detection there is a 95% five year survival rate for breast cancer patients. Please do not ignore regular checkups.
The reason for hanging up the “Closed for July” sign at the old website was a good one. Joni and I took a big chunk of last month to embark on a celebration cruise that marked the end of her treatments. We flew to London and met up with two other couples who had shared our journey and now shared our joy. On July 4th we journeyed to Southhampton, England to begin a twelve day cruise around the British Isles. We tried not to dwell on the fact that Southhampton was the port that Titantic departed from ninety-five years ago. That little factoid did make me pay a bit more attention to the mandatory safety drill that all cruise ships have before departure.
During Joni’s long journey through chemotherapy and radiation she often talked about getting “postcards” from God. When she would get a bit down or discouraged she would inevitably receive an unexpected visit, note or blessing. I cannot tell you if the following event was a “postcard” from God for us. But the timing was indeed remarkable. We had started planning this cruise just after Joni’s diagnosis as a way to celebrate the eventual end of treatments. After a long and difficult cancer journey we finally reached the celebration journey departure.. This was the scene as we pulled away from Southhampton.
That is not an enhanced photo. That is how the rainbow actually appeared from our balcony. We were as awestruck as Noah must have been when God made His promise to him.
Then God said, “I am giving you a sign of my covenant with you and with all living creatures, for all generations to come. I have placed my rainbow in the clouds. It is the sign of my covenant with you and with all the earth. When I send clouds over the earth, the rainbow will appear in the clouds, and I will remember my covenant with you and with all living creatures.”
I will never forget that rainbow. Joni and I had adopted a song called Praise You in This Storm by Casting Crowns as the anthem for our journey. The lyrics are a powerful reminder of the need to trust God in all things.
I was sure by now
God You would have reached down
And wiped our tears away
And stepped in and saved the day
Once again, I say Amen, and it is still raining
As the thunder rolls
I barely hear you whisper through the rain
I’m with you
As your mercy falls
I raise my hands and praise the God who gives
And takes away
I’ll Praise you in this storm
And I will lift my hands
You are who you are
No matter where I am
And every tear I’ve cried
You hold in your hand
You never left my side
And though my heart is torn
I will Praise You in this storm
For Joni and I the storm has passed for now. I am reminded of a quote from author G.K.Chesterton: “And when it rains on your parade, look up rather than down. Without the rain, there would be no rainbow.”
We have had some rain and dark clouds. Now we have a chance to rest in Him and savor the rainbow. On our trip we visited the beautiful country of Ireland. I will leave you with this Irish blessing.
“May God give you…For every storm a rainbow, for every tear a smile, for every care a promise and a blessing in each trial. For every problem life sends, a faithful friend to share, for every sigh a sweet song and an answer for each prayer.”
Amen.
Sandra O' Callaghan
Greetings from Ireland everyone – I came across this blog while looking for the origin of the prayer May God give you…for every storm a rainbow… I feel very humbled to have read the stories above and hope I have not intruded into your sacred space. I am a liturgical composer in Cork city and when I found that prayer I wanted to put music to it. In order to be able to attribute the lyrics to someone I was trawling the ‘net’ and so here I am. I think God indeed sent me here today and I will be better for it – your courage and strength in the face of very real adversity is inspiring and I send you all blessings and sincere good wishes for the future. May you always have that rainbow.
Love and Light… Sandra
Sue Bohlin
Dave,
The amazing unretouched rainbow photo made me weep! God is so incredibly good!!
Love you guys,
Sue
Sharon
I just wanted to clarify that grumpy husband remark. It was a reference to an earlier blog and not really a reflection on my husband. He has been wonderfully supportive through this whole period. We have a regular devotion time together at night and he has been a rock for me.
Sharon(with the not really grumpy husband)
Bridgette
I’m glad you got to spend the time together. That is an impressive rainbow. Sounds like you got the time you needed both with one another and with God.
Sharon
Dave,
Thank you again. Your blog this morning along with my reading of the Upper Room for today (which frequently seems to be written just for me) were a “postcard from God” for me. I am embarking on my third month of unemployment. While not quite the journey that you and Joni have been on, it has been quite stressful to be a middle-aged woman unemployed for the first time in 14 years. I was sure God would have another job ready and waiting for me and I am still sure he does. I just didn’t know it was going to take so long. This has been a time for the “rubber to meet the road” for my faith talk and my faith walk. Some days I do better than others. Your blog has been such a blessing to me that I can’t thank God enough for leading me to it.
I continue to celebrate with you and Joni and keep you both in my prayers.
Sharon (with the grumpy husband)